If you said so.....

Life is not very easy if you said so.

Somehow, we need to learn how to maintain the relationship between lover, family members, friends, colleague and also your enemy. Well, perhaps sometimes my enemies is just too seldom for me to meet, or maybe have a fight with each others. Actually this is not the point. The whole point is how are you going to maintain all of these relationships.....

Its all started by a single incident today. One of my colleague, or maybe my senior or superior are showed me a "justice Pao's face" when I tried to report something important to her. Seriously? Show me that you are not happy with your works? Come on, none of us are happy too. I respect you as my senior, but when it turns back, what have you done to the others? What you act is just like an unstable dynamic which is going to explode anytime.

Sometimes, we just need to care other's feeling. I care yours, but you didn't. Maybe this is your right, but when others did the same thing to you, what are you going to react this? We all know that you are having a bad mood recently, but is doesn't mean that you could do like that if you said so. Please try to make your mind clear and think all the consequent that you might cause because you might turn your friends into strangers.

I might not the perfect person in this world, or either other worlds, but I still keep my effort to become the better. Life is not going to be like anything else if you said so, because we are the one who going to live our own life. Be happy.

聆听

聆听，
是一个简单的动词。
但真正能做到的，
却不是很简单。

在一个人心情低落时，
最希望身边有人可以聆听自己的心声。

有时候，
你也许是一个聆听者，
在不断地聆听别人的心声。

但在你需要一个聆听者的时候，
有谁愿意担任这个角色呢？

或许不是因为我找不到聆听者，
而是因为世界的一切在慢慢的离我远去。

这样子，
能够成为我的聆听者的人，
却只有我自己。

没关系，
你可以这样子度过26年，
也代表着接下来的日子你还是一样可以度过。

正确？与否？

近几个星期，我的身边不断的发生一些问题。也许这些问题都是出现在工作上，但却没有一个真正的解决方式。宾主关系，信任和不信任，其实都不断出现在很多地方。但我却没有想到，这样的问题竟然会出现在我的身上。

其实，我们都知道，trust issue的确是一件很常见的问题。但这些问题都无法被解决。究竟是谁的问题，上司还是下属？到最后，流了泪和翻了脸，都没有解决到这些问题。

有时候，我们做了许多东西，但却不被人认同。而一些人做错了东西，却得到上司的维护。这样子，公平吗？我们做了许多东西，但却被人否认了一切。而一些只会做把戏的人做了一些小动作，就可以的到别人的认同，这又怎么说呢？

在这里，我有话要说。上司啊，你的所作所为是我看过许多上司里面最烂的一位。你是否会真心去聆听别人的话，而不处处去针对别人，和了解一下是非的黑白呢？难道你不知道为什么这间学校的成绩之所以每况愈下，都是因为你的自私吗？所以在你每次说些没用的话之前，好好地用你的脑袋想想看吧。

至于那些奸人啊，其实想想看，我觉得你们很可怜。非要用到这样的方式来让自己风光。一点都没有真材实料，可悲啊。我想，你们这一辈子，就只是这样一般罢了。

人啊，常常都会抱怨。而我呢？算了吧~

Blame it on Me....

The post is special dedicates to those who wanna blame on,
on something that I ever did,
or something that I never did.
I know you been something very hurt,
and I might understand that feeling.
But when you try to put your anger on someone who not deserve to take that,
like you did it on me this morning,
I'm okay with that.
I will take that blame from you.
Because I know,
that kind of feeling.

To those who create this mess,
some shit you just think you are right,
but no matter what kind of shit you playing with,
you don't try to ignore that you are one of their kind.
Seriously,
I know why I dislike you very much since the day I know you.
You just release a freaking bad aurora to make me dislike you more.
Especially the way you talk,
never use your brain to think,
You just no need blame me for that,
because you are the one who did it to yourself.

Explanation is nothing when people who angry on you still having the rage in their eye,
this is my policy,
this is my way,
and is useless.
So I won't stand up and defense myself.
Because I know,
no matter what is my explanation,
you will still blaming me for that.

Blame me,
I'm okay with that.
But try to think that,
if someday,
people doing the same thing on you,
what is your feeling?
Are you okay with that?

If you ask me why I want to say like that,
I guess you just keep the question for yourself.
Because I know you won't accept my answer.
Or maybe I just give you the answer through another way.

Is okay.......