孩子这样子，是谁的错？

近年来，报章上常常可以看到很多关于教育的新闻，尤其是学生的问题，简直是多不胜数。究竟这些问题出在睡得身上？是教师的错，还是学生的错，还是家长的错呢？

今天早上，星洲日报的头版就刊登了一篇以学生坠楼的新闻。由于该名学生有在面子书上写出她对学校的不满，而且也还没得到任何的肯定的答案，所以许多人都觉得是学校的责任。除此之外，在柔佛也发生类似的问题，几名问题学生因为纪律上的问题而被学校开除，所以就刊登上报纸，希望得到社会人士的关心和支持，让他们回去学校求学。而在这几名学生里，有的人则认为校方将他们开除是不对的，因为他们觉得对老师不敬和逃课只是很平常的事，到头来，还是把所有的问题推回给校方和老师。

想想看，马来西亚的教育常常会发生这种问题。在我求学的那个年代，无论被老师怎么样子处罚，父母亲都不曾有怨言，而且还十分赞成校方利用体罚来教导孩子。但到了这个年代，小小的惩罚就可以让这些父母闹上学校，甚至还要闹上报纸和教育部，真的有需要吗？请你们想想看，孩子们在学校，教师们就有责任去教导孩子。如果孩子们做错，我们就必须教导他们和给予适当的惩罚，难道这样子是错的吗？

父母们的宠爱，导致现在的学生们都无法面临任何挫折和教训。学生们常常认为自己所作的一切都是对的，因为一直以来父母都没有去纠正他们的错误，所以就开始变本加厉。到了学校，也不理老师们的教诲，只要被老师说了两句，就给老师脸色看，开始反驳老师，以及做出一些违法的事，直到被停学或开除时，父母亲就会上来学校理论，搞不好还会闹到教育部，最后，还是让这些学生回到学校去继续无法无天，和让所有的教师们背负着这些错误。

父母们，如果你们觉得孩子的问题都是老师们的责任，那就请你放心的把孩子交给校方的老师们。老师是不会随便处罚学生。如果你觉得你的孩子在学校真的是一个好学生，那就请你来当一个星期的教师，我相信你一定会发现，教育并不是你们想像中的那么简单。如果你觉的孩子们每天逃学和不尊敬教师是一件小事，那你就来尝试看这种滋味吧。

我无法确认学校的里的每一位教师都是好教师，但我却相信不是每一位教师都希望自己的学生变坏。学生现在的问题，并不适合让我们讨论谁是谁非，最重要的是我们必须放下彼此的成见，好好的来解决这个问题。否则，当问题真的到了无可挽回的地步,归罪与谁也是于事无补。

这就是我在实习的日子里所学到的东西。

毕业典礼

Soon Joo from Sains Matematik

Richard from Moral

Slyvester from Science Mathematic

Jia Ling From TESL

不知不觉，戴着四方帽，穿着毕业袍，站在台上接过毕业证书的那一刻，真的让我感到无数的光荣，但无奈的是，拥有这种感觉的人并不是我，而是我的学长和学姐们，也是我在大学里认识的好朋友。

我常常在想，短短的大学生活，除了拿到好成绩之外，还有什么东西是最重要的和怎么样才能让自己的大学生活不会感到遗憾。虽然我找不到一个很好的答案，但我却很庆幸的认识了这一帮朋友。虽然都是不一样的科系，但却可以拥有一样的话题，也没有因为肤色的不同而出现任何沟通上的问题，我想这就是所谓的《一个大马》吧。

恭喜你们，在你们的大学学士生活里划下了一个句点。虽然我无法去参加你们的毕业典礼，当场和你们一起分享着一份喜悦，但在我心里，还是替你们感到高兴。无论未来的日子如何，就算我们的工作岗位和地点不一样，我还是期待着重逢的那一天。

你们的毕业，也提醒了我自己即将结束自己的大学生活。希望在余下不多的大学生活里，我能够找到自己心里面想要的东西，也希望可以开开心心的为自己的大学生活留下许许多多的回忆。

恭喜你们^^

Dishonest

I know, from day to day, we may discover that some people around us might wearing a mask when they face us. But when we discover that, means we might also become one of them among others. So, what is the point?

Recently, I got an issue with a student. Seriously, I don't know whether his parent got teach him respect and honest or not. Today when I advice him to tuck in his shirt, he just acting like I don't give a damn at all. And when I punish him, he will find dozens of reason to put those blame on me. Is it I am the one who making this kind of mistake, or you just a rubbish?

I'm not feeling regret to punish you just now. But what you done, just show that people will calling you kurang ajar and put those blame on your parents. I can said you just an idiot, but what I try to do is let you know how to respect people, especially adults. You can think that other teachers has totally gave up for you, but I'm not. No matter how bad you are, how worse you are, once I step into this school, means that you are my student, and no teacher will give up on their student, unless they just come to school for their salary.

This is my 10th week in this school, means I still got 4 more weeks remaining in this school. No matter how, I will try my best to give you some attitude adjustment, no necessary to change it all, but at least you people may know how to be honest and respect people.

不要跟我来这一套

常常有人对我说：在我最需要你的时候，你都死去哪里？现在还要我来帮你，你是不是在利用我？

当你对我说出这一句话的时候，请你好好想想看，是谁最需要谁的时候不见踪影？如果你觉得我在利用你，那你就别那么笨的让我利用。想想看，和你认识了那么多年了，你要我帮忙，要不是有充足的理由，否则我一定随传随到。而你呢？你自己去想想看吧。

我不会和你计较，因为也没有这个必要。但请你别对我讲着一些话，之后还觉得自己没有错，这样是没用的。因为我觉得是错的！我这样子对你，而你却这样子说我，伤了我的心，而你却不会说道歉，这样子，你觉得开心吗?如果是，那就请你以后就别来找我。

对了，别对我撒娇，因为我不吃这一套。要的话，就当面对我说声对不起，不过我想这样子是很难的咯。

过<----->错

很久，很久了，大概忘了多久，因为自己的过错，我错过了一个人。

这样的开场白，看起来似乎有点伤感，对吧？哈哈，其实这种想法，我是突然间想到从前的自己。而这种想法，并不是无端端想起，而是因为今天是那一位主角的生日，所以才想到的。

话说几年前，我还是中学生的时候，邂逅了一段恋情。这一段长达一年的恋情，就因为自己的错，而结束了。也许是有缘无份，但却无法让我逃离自己的责备。这一段恋情的结束，就开始了我人生中的其中一段低潮。

其实，我并不是想要说我很想念她。而我真正想说的，是后来的故事所得到的一段启发。

我曾经认为，一段感情的结束，只是两个人的事。但在现实生活中，并没想象中的那么简单。结束了一段恋情，你必须面对的考验比你在一起时更加艰难。也许你们结束的故事其实很简单，但你却不能避免某些“报纸杂志”的报导，而让身边的人开始对你改观，把你判了死刑。

其实，别人的恋情，并不需要别人来插一脚，也不要把自己的错过或过错来迁怒他人。明明你的朋友和对方是好朋友，但你却比他们在你和他之间做出选择。如果他们是站在你那一边的人，那还可以。但如果他们并不喜欢你们这样子，就这样，你的人格在他们的心理开始被扭转，到最后，就会发生许许多多的事。

两个人，就代表着只有你和他，而不是硬要拖入别人来。你错过了，不代表说是件坏事。就像这个故事里的主角，今天的她其实不寂寞，因为有了一个爱她的男人陪她那么多年，所以不一定所有的过失，都是不好的。

在这里，我就向这个故事的主角说声“生日快乐”^^

p/s: 整篇文章似乎读起来有点不顺，大概是很久没有写的关系，找不回那种感觉，我会继续努力的。

政治

政治，是我一生中最不想要去触碰的一样东西。但无奈的说，我未来的职业，却和政治脱不了关系。这就我最讨厌的一件事。就像今天，我彻彻底底的对政治这种东西感到无奈和绝望。在这个国家，政治的确是一件很黑暗的事。

2011年7月9日，在我国政治舞台上演出了一部让全世界人都非常稀奇的一件事。我国的非政府组织“净选盟”为了要向政府提出改革选举制度而碰壁，就在本国的首都进行了一场大游行。而这个大游行，却换来了许许多多的事件，导致一个安宁的国家，渐渐的开始变成不安宁。

如果一个游行就可以换来了改变，那么这个游行的确是一个很好的活动。如果说一个国家的政府可以大公无私，没有种族歧视，又不打压人民和随意改变一些事实，那么你就不用害怕人民来反抗你。正所谓：公说公有理，婆说婆有理。就这样，每一方都为了自己的事实来进行自己的活动，到最后，人民就是受害者。

对，在我的眼里，这个国家的确没有实行到首相所推荐的“一个大马”，也因为这样，我们都可以看到许许多多的种族纠纷在这个国家上映。为什么，手上同样是持着大马公民的人，就因为肤色不同所以就不断的吵吵闹？

政府不断的打压人民，这是个不变的事实。但却不肯去承认自己的错误，而利用自己的势力去改变事实，难道你们真的认为人们是这么的无知吗？哈哈哈～一个三岁小孩子都可以分辨出来的实施，而你们这些所谓的领袖却利用手段去改变这个事实，你们真的是不知道什么是廉耻吗？看来你们真的需要来中学学习什么是道德咯。

我不喜欢政治，因为对我来说，政治只不过是一个恶魔的化身。无论有多么清廉的人都好，到最后都会因为政治的诱惑而坠入地狱。所以，请你不要把我拖入这个世界，如果只是一场饭后话题，我奉陪。但如果你要我去参加这些东西，那你就省电力气吧。

How are you going to define a good student?

The topic I try to share here today is "how are you going to define a good student?"

Normally, when we talk about good student, people will always group them into a students who got a good result in academic, follow instruction, with manners and also good in sports. Ya, this is the normal condition for a good student. But if you try to think back, is it the student like this really honest in front of you, really as good as you think before?

I'm met a lot of students in this school. Once at all, this school is a school with a lots of bad students, not very good in academic, and also got a lot of naughty students. But why? I means how the student will be like this, is it their parents' fault? Seriously, as what I think and my opinion, everyone should be blame for their attitude and also everything their did.

Teachers always complain: Those students are ridiculous, never listen to people's words and no manners. They just a rubbish! Ya, if they are rubbish, why those students seldom escape my class? And why those students always greet with me once they see me? Is it they just blindly don't want to respect you and don't give a damn to you?

Students act always related with they environment. Sometimes, when students did something wrong, we should advice and also punish them. Ya, a simple punish but can let them remember this for a long time. Even you people might scare that their parent will come to complain us, but seriously, I don't scare because what I do is for their own good. That's why until now, mostly every student in this school will greet me every time they see me.

When a junior or trainee teacher got such popularity among the students and can do something better than others, the so called "senior" group will show their jealousy with several way. For me, is fine. You can shoot me whatever you want. Even will make me upset, but also a while. But seriously, if you all still practicing this kind of attitude among the students, is hard for you to make them follow and respect you.

Cry for students might not worth. Sometimes we just wan to let them understand what is the wrong thing and what is the correct thing. I'm satisfy with my students because sometimes they will listen to my words. And those who always make trouble, I will try another way to let them know what is the good and bad thing. Even sometimes I might act a bit violence like yesterday and today, but for their sake, I think I really need to do like this.

No matter what, education is a hard thing for us to elaborate. You can find a several ways to build a good student, but if you want to build a human in a good quality, I think I am better than you.

Practical's life is tough, but once we end it, then it will become a good experience for us in our life because you will only have one practical's life in your whole life......well, might be more than that if you insist to repeat it.

week 7.....

Without any notice, my practical life just step into week 7, means that I still got 7 weeks to go. So what have I done and learn in the first 7 weeks for my practical life?

1. Report myself in the first week. And I just realize I made a wrong decision when I pick this school because this school is fulfill with a lot of so called rubbish(just some of them).....
2. Know a lots of teachers, some of them might very kind. But some of them.....rubbish!
3. Learn to be patient, especially to those who only know how to give orders but don't know what is the reality.
4. Meet a lot of students.....especially is not that bad as what those permanent teachers said.
5. In the bottom class, doesn't mean that they are bottom; In the top class, doesn't mean that they all are good students.
6. Relief.....every time when they arrange me for relief some class, try to see who is the teacher. You might realize some teacher still sit inside the Bilik Akses to enjoy the air-con and 38 with their gangs.
7. Permanent teacher is a teacher, practical teacher is just a junior and must follow every order from permanent teacher......%^&*()
8. The power of MC!
9. Made a lot of friends, especially with my students(from other classes).
10. The reason my school won't have any activity during Saturday: Principle think that is very troublesome to back to school on Saturday(Ver. 2: Principle feel lazy to back to school on Saturday).
11. Never try to contact my lecturer, because you will only waste your credit when you call him(he never answer the call and only turn into voice call).
12. Psychologically punish my students(this is fun).
13. Female Students: Teacher/Sir, you look very handsome la, just like an artist from Korea(no Korea please!).
14. Male Students: Teacher/Sir, you look very handsome today. Me: Yaya, you look ugly, and don't try to praise me. I still remember that you haven't submit your work yet!
15. Cikgu XXXXXX: Kong, wanna play footsal with us today? Me: No, thanks.
16. Students: Teacher, treat us eat, you are teacher, sure very rich 1....(Dude, I am just a practical teacher without salary)!
17. See a lot of things happen in Bilik Guru.....
18. GTO? No need.....

Well, basically this is all I got for my first part of practical life......if you realize, I haven't observe by my lecturer yet. So, wish me good luck~